If you feel like you’re drifting apart...
Are tired of getting into the same arguments with no resolution...
Or want to re-ignite your spark...

CONNECTED was made for you.

There’s something special about the connection the two of you have.

When you’re in sync you just ‘get’ each other - you don’t even have to say anything.

But with busy lives, relationships can get pushed to the back burner… often without you even noticing.

You may feel like you’re drifting apart. You used to spend hours lost in conversation but now give more attention to your phones each night than to each other.

Perhaps you’ve even noticed little things turning into an argument… like where dirty clothes go or the ‘right way’ to pack the dishwasher.

Your sex life (if you still have one) has likely become routine too. And just maybe you wonder what will happen to your relationship if things keep going the way they are.

Things aren’t ‘that bad’ but you miss feeling the excitement you had for each other when you first got together.

Introducing CONNECTED...

Whether you’ve been together for a few decades or you’re just starting your life together, you can become the happiest couple you know.

Even if…

  • You’re busy.

  • Your relationship is already good.

  • Your partner isn’t interested in therapy.

Build an unbreakable connection, feel understood by each other and take on the world together.

Get insights and playful activities from an expert - to become closer and make your love last.

Are you in a long term relationship but feel like you’re drifting apart?
You’ll discover practical ways to connect every day.

Your relationship is good, but you want to make it better?
You’ll get proven exercises that bring you even closer.

You’re a newer couple and want to start on the right foot?
You’ll get playful activities to take your relationship forward.

It doesn’t take long weekends away.
It isn’t about ‘hard work’ or boring relationship advice.
It’s not about digging up problems from the past.

Hi I’m Isiah.

I help high-achieving, successful couples have more harmonious relationships, loving intimacy and satisfying sex.

For the past 15 years, I’ve been helping couples reconnect so they stop arguing and feel like a team again.


As one of the most qualified and experienced sex and relationship experts in Australia, I’ve built my reputation on getting my clients results. I’ve lost count of the number of clients who told me that our work together was life-changing and I’d love to help you too.

My advice has featured in publications like news.com.au, Men’s Health, Women’s Health, Harper’s Bazaar and in programs for Channel 7 and Channel 9.

My qualifications include:

  • Masters Degree in Relational Psychotherapy
  • Masters Degree in Science of Medicine (Sexual Health/Psychosexual Therapy)
  • Post-Graduate Diploma in Sexology
  • Studied at the prestigious Institute for the Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality
  • Levels 1, 2 & 3 of The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship


When you join Connected, you get the most powerful exercises and advice that I’ve discovered helping couples just like you. They’re proven to help create a bulletproof connection, deeper understanding and lasting desire.


I can’t wait to see you inside.


FEATURED IN

Don’t become ships passing in the night.

Create love that lasts.

Remember the beginning of your relationship?

You got dressed up for date night. You got lost in conversation for hours. You stayed up late together without a single worry about tomorrow. You laughed more and you felt like you could take on the world together.

Be like you were at the beginning - but better.

Life is too short to argue or feel upset with each other.

Spend less time upset and more time enjoying life together.

Do you ever find yourself arguing over silly little things? Or wonder how you even ended up in a fight?

It’s frustrating, because arguing is the last thing you want to do. These small hurts can build up over time, quietly sabotaging a relationship.

In Connected you get practical tools to you can use to talk about meaningful topics - without starting an argument or shutting down.

Ignite Intimacy

And pave the way for lasting desire

At the beginning of a relationship your sex life was probably intoxicating and passionate.

But you may have found that as life has become busy, you’re ‘intimate’ less often than you’d like.

You might feel like this is the missing piece of the puzzle or the only thing you argue about.

You’re not alone.

Reigniting authentic desire isn’t about ‘just doing it’ or trying a new sex toy. To ignite lasting desire in your relationship, you need a strategy - that also builds your connection and helps you understand each other better.

In Connected you’ll build the foundations for lasting desire and increased pleasure together.

Imagine being ‘that couple’ with the relationship all your friends wish they had.

✓ Imagine knowing the questions to ask to dissolve the unspoken barriers between you.
✓ Imagine feeling heard after every discussion.
✓ Imagine knowing how to feel closer in as little as 15 minutes.
✓ Imagine feeling confident that you have the skills to make your love last.

You don't have to figure it out alone

You know that you want your relationship to feel closer and more connected, but probably aren’t sure where to start.

You might have tried going on dates nights, buying new toys or using techniques you found on Instagram, but are still stuck in the same old rut.

And while you can read plenty of ideas online, you’re not always getting quality advice.

Previously the only way you could guarantee getting expert advice was by going to therapy. 

But not every couple needs therapy.

Connected is an alternative to Couples Therapy or a Couples Retreat. If your relationship is generally good and you just want to make it better, Connected can help you create a happier relationship - the kind all your friends look up to.

Connected gives you practical tools and proven advice - but with a playful twist.

Connected is perfect for you if:

  • You want to deepen your connection and intimacy
  • You want to rediscover your spark
  • You're ready for more connection, playfulness and understanding in your relationship

Whether you've been together for a few months or a few decades, Connected gives you all the tools you need for a strong, happy and lasting relationship.

When you join CONNECTED, you can feel connected, understood and become lovers again.

When you join CONNECTED, you will:

  • Deepen emotional intimacy
  • Increase meaningful conversations
  • Feel understood by each other
  • Navigate hot button topics with ease
  • Say goodbye to relentless arguing or emotional shutdowns
  • Revive bedroom playfulness and excitement
  • Ignite sexual desire
  • Laugh together - like you used to
  • Inspire each other to take on the world together


"Thank you for making this process as easy as possible.
Thank you for making this process, which could have been much more uncomfortable, as easy as possible. We now feel connected now and it’s more fun. Initiating sex feels easier and pleasure comes easier."
~ Laura


"You’re the best therapist and coach in Australia.
This has made a huge difference to our life. I’m no longer concerned about our relationship. It’s a huge relief. I would 100% recommend you Isiah. I believe you’re the best therapist and coach in Australia."

~ D

  • Based on over 40 years of research

  • 15 years expert experience

  • Tools have helped thousands of couples

  • Easy. Playful. Practical.

  • Lifetime access*

When you join Connected, you’ll get:

  • Core module video lessons valued at $2000
    You get clear, step-by step videos covering the keys to a thriving relationship.

  • Science-backed insights from 40 years of research and my own 15+ year career invaluable
    Peace of mind - everything we cover is based on proven relationship advice.

  • Playful activities - that even your partner will want to do valued at $2000
    Put your knowledge into practice with light-hearted activities that solidify your insights.

  • Member Prices value plus
    Receive special discounts and offers for other courses and masterclasses.

Create love that lasts. Here’s how:

You’ll be guided through the Relationship Harmony Method

The advice and games in the Relationship Harmony Method are based on
over a decade supporting couples just like you. These activities are
proven to create strong relationships and more enjoyable intimacy.

Module 1

Positive goals: Look forward to the future together

You get insights and practical tools to start your journey as a team and look forward to the future together.

Including:

  • Everything you need to know to become the happiest couple you know
  • The key to creating positive change

Module 2

Feel closer and more connected - without having to say a word

You get playful games to help you laugh, feel excited about spending time together and build your special connection.

Including:

  • Your unique love story
  • Getting to know each other
  • Intimate conversation starters
  • Building appreciation
  • Rituals for connection
  • Bringing laughter and playfulness back
  • Discovering each other’s Love Language

Module 3

Have meaningful conversations and feel understood by each other

You get scripts for more harmonious communication - without nagging or shutting down.

Including:

  • The key to communication that brings you closer
  • How to stop arguing over little things
  • Communication styles to avoid and what to do instead
  • The Dance of Connection in your relationship
  • How to deepen understanding - even when you think you don’t agree

Module 4

Spark authentic desire and loving sex

You get sensual activities for more ease, pleasure and desire in the bedroom.

Including:

  • The most useful sex education you never got
  • How to skyrocket sexual desire
  • Discovering your secret pleasure zones
  • 3 Minutes of Heaven
  • Variety is the spice of life
  • Keeping the spark alive
  • How to initiate sex without being awkward
  • Intimacy Dates

Module 5

Keep growing: Stay on track and more in love that ever

You get powerful activities to keep you on track and moving forward together for years to come.

Including:

  • Reflection and revision
  • Your relationship check in

Each ‘lesson’ includes a short video and an enjoyable, practical activity. You work through each lesson in your own time, fitting it around your schedule.

You get lifetime access to the course, so there’s no rush to get through it.


"We have a closer, more intimate, loving and sexual relationship.
There are so many ways we’ve changed since we started seeing you Isiah, but they’ve all added up to us having a closer, more intimate, loving and sexual relationship with each other."
~ A Happy Husband


"Everyone should do this.
We are really open about our sessions with Isiah, the reaction of friends is often ‘Oh no! That’s not good’. But it shouldn’t be like that, things shouldn’t be falling apart before you work on them. We are firm believers that you should take preventive actions."
~ Mick and Rochelle

What is your dream relationship worth to you?

When your relationship is strong, your whole life feels easier. You feel lighter. You have more energy for the things you love.

I want to help you create a relationship that’s happy - not just for now, but for the rest of your lives.

In this course, you’ll learn what’s needed to create connection, understanding, support and pave the way for lasting intimacy and desire.

I’ve lost count of the number of clients who told me that our work together was life-changing.

Many couples tell me our work together was much more enjoyable than they thought would be.

And many tell me that they wish they’d done something sooner.

How much does this course actually cost?

Ordinarily couples therapy with me begins at $595 per session and requires a minimum commitment of 3 months.

Personalised retreats with me run into the tens of thousands.

I’m offering Connected for just a fraction of that price because I want as many couples as possible to access this knowledge and see the benefits in their relationship.

Join CONNECTED Today

Yes, I'm ready to truly connect with my partner!

You’ll also get a TON of valuable Bonus Resources

You’ll also get a TON of valuable Bonus Resources (These are honestly worth the investment in the course alone)

Loving Financial Affairs: Be a financial team and quit arguing about money Masterclass valued at $197

Money is one of the top issues that couples argue about, but it doesn’t have to be.

In this workshop, you’ll discover:

  • Why you fight about money - the underlying ‘real’ truth
  • Techniques to talk about finances without arguing
  • Spender or saver? Learn harmonious ways to handle your different spending habits
  • Powerful questions you need to be asking each other about money
  • The love of money and how to work as a team on your goals


Taking on the kids together: How to parent as a unified team Masterclass valued at $197

Parenting is challenging. Having kids places added strain to a relationship. While you both want the best for your kids, different parenting styles, different ideas about discipline and sharing childcare can increase tension between you.

In this workshop, you’ll discover:

  • The key parenting styles of you and your partner
  • How to support each other’s natural style (rather than undermining them)
  • Approaches to create a united front with challenging child behaviour
  • The impact your relationship has on your child’s development
  • Artful ways to ensure being a positive influence around your children


No more fights about laundry: Stopping arguments about chores Masterclass valued at $197

Do you ever find yourself arguing about chores? Do you feel growing resentment because of who does what around the house? You’re not alone.

In this workshop, you’ll discover:

  • Why chores cause fights
  • What research says on how happy couples divide chores
  • ‘No more nagging’ techniques
  • The #1 key to avoiding housework arguments


Hidden Secrets of the Female Orgasm Masterclass Masterclass valued at $197

This powerful workshop covers everything you wish you knew about the female orgasm.

You’ll discover:

  • Secrets to knock-your-socks-off orgasms
  • Valid reasons why some women struggle to orgasm
  • ‘Increase your orgasms’ instruction (even if you never have)
  • The secret to more orgasms together


Ancient Intimacy: Foundations of Tantra for Couples Masterclass valued at $197

The ancient art and science of Tantra yoga has been helping people have more enjoyable sex for centuries. Sting credits Tantra for his amazing sex life and you’ll discover why.

You’ll learn:

  • Tantra techniques for deeper intimacy and connection
  • Ancient secrets for epic sexual pleasure
  • Forgotten love practices for greater connection and pleasure
  • Tantric practices for couples


The Science behind Attachment Style and Your Relationship Masterclass valued at $197

Knowing your Attachment Style helps all your relationships make sense. Attachment Styles are the blueprint for how we react in relationships. Our Attachment Styles form early in our life but impact us throughout our lives. Understanding each other’s Attachment Style is like a cheat code for an incredible relationship.

You’ll discover:

  • How to work out which Attachment Style you have – and what your partner’s is
  • Magnetic and problematic Attachment Style combinations
  • How to stop different Attachment Styles negatively impacting your relationship
  • How to adjust your Attachment Style for a more harmonious relationship


Sealed Section Playbook: Spicy text messages to stir romance and passion Masterclass valued at $47

Sending flirty text messages is a great way to add spark to your relationship, build intimacy and increase desire. But most of us get tongue tied at even the thought.

In this bonus, you’ll get spicy scripts and suggestions to build anticipation and plant the seed of desire. You’ll build your confidence in flirting and sexy-talk, increasing intimacy and passion between you.



Date Night Playbook for Couples with No Free Time Masterclass valued at $47

Every couple knows they should be having date night… But how often does it actually happen? Weekly becomes fortnightly and then a few times a year.

You might have found that date night quickly becomes one person’s responsibility or starts to feel routine (aka dull).

In this bonus you’ll get:

  • How to keep date night momentum
  • Date night secrets for busy couples
  • Can’t leave the house? You can still date
  • Dating ideas designed for fun, laughter and connection

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Become the happiest couple you know?

30 Day Full Money Back Guarantee

If you try Connected and don’t feel more connected in 30 days, I’ll refund the entire price of the course and offer you a free personalised 90 minute session valued at $595.

FAQ

  • We only have problems with sex… can this help us?

    Connected does address sexual intimacy - although it’s not the entire focus.

    A satisfying sex life needs a foundation of connection and good communication. Connected helps you build these foundations. And then shares advice and playful activities on increasing sexual intimacy.

    Even if you’re only struggling in the area of intimacy, joining Connected can contribute to a happier relationship and pave the way to build desire.

  • How long will it take?

    Some couples will choose to work through the activities over a few days, similar to a Couples Retreat or romantic weekend away. Other will choose one lesson each week or month, moving through the course more slowly. Some of the activities will become favourites that you’ll play together over and over again.

    There’s no time limit to your access to the course, so you can do the activities at your own pace.

  • How do we know if it’s right for us?

    If you’ve been looking for an enjoyable way to feel more connected and improve your relationship, this is a great program for you.

    If you’re feeling uncertain about whether it’s right for you (either jump on a call with me first or Connected has a 30 day money back guarantee so you can decide).

  • How much time will we need?

    The amount of time you spend on Connected is up to you.

    You can choose to work through the program in one long weekend, like a couples retreat or do one exercise a week or month. Each video lesson is powerful and succinct at just a few minutes long.

    The accompanying activities take anywhere from 10 minutes to one hour.

    There’s no limit on your access to the course, so you can do the activities at your own pace.

  • Is this like therapy?

    Connected isn’t therapy.

    Therapy is a deep dive and is usually aimed at relationships experiencing challenges. Connected isn’t a replacement for therapy if your relationship is in distress.

    You'll get some of the tools and advice I share in therapy - but with a playful twist. You also get to do the exercises whenever you have time.

    Connected is a great alternative to therapy or a Couples Retreat. It's for couples who know that their relationship is already good and they just want to make it better.

  • What if my partner doesn’t want to do it?

    Any relationship functions best when you’re working as a team.

    I suggest you have a conversation with your partner about how much it would mean to you to have them on board with you.

    If your partner doesn’t want to be involved, you’ll get benefit from doing it alone. You can then introduce the exercises to your partner later.

  • How does the course work?

    Each lesson builds on the last, helping you build connection, understanding and intimacy. Your guided through a program that uses the Relationship Harmony Method.

    You get a short video lesson explaining the relationship science behind the practical tool or fun activity. You then get playful, practical activities to do together.

    The advice and games in the Relationship Harmony Method are based on over a decade supporting couples just like you. These activities are proven to create strong relationships and more enjoyable intimacy.

    You’re getting the very best of what I’ve discovered in an easy-to-implement way.


"Your guidance, knowledge and support honestly saved our relationship.
Your guidance, knowledge and support honestly saved our relationship and I cannot thank you enough. Isiah you have been an amazing blessing in our lives and we wouldn’t be where we are today without you."
~ E&J Recently Married


"What I loved most was that we dealt with strengthening our connection as a couple instead of focusing on ‘the problems’
I loved taking the feeling that the ‘problem’ was off my shoulders. I would absolutely recommend Isiah to my friends in a similar situation to what we were."
~ Di


"Isiah does a beautiful job of helping people navigate the complex world of sexuality and relationships. 
She is compassionate as well as knowledgeable. Thank goodness for her expertise!"

~ Janelle, Therapist


"Our time with Isiah has made such a profoundly positive impact on our relationship.
It truly set us up for married life in the best way possible! Thank you Isiah for refreshing our long term relationship and equipping us with the skills and tools to continue on in this way."
~ S&S

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